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A Stream of Consciousness List


Inspired by Barbara Ann Kiper’s book “14,000 Things To Be Happy About”.

1. That thought niggling in the back of your head for weeks about that one thing you wish you could avoid

2. Unavoidable situations

3. The inevitability of confrontation and circumstance

4. Both the calm and the rage

5. Emotions that are tangled together like the ball of yarn in the back of your grandma’s closet from 1958.

6. The moldy bread that disappoints to the point of anger

7. Hatred for hatred

8. The inevitability of them finding out

9. Resolving to repent

10. Relentless self doubt

11. Self hatred

12. Self harm

13. Verbal inner abuse

14. The torture of guilt

15. The relief of a pent up word.

16. Anxiety

17. The realization that every human being is living a life just as complicated as your own

18. Sonder

19. Understanding humans are almost unjudgeable. Morals, ethics, and human rights are all a concepts of our cultural consensus and collective attitude in an individualistic universe striving against itself in its hypocritical ways.

20. Chaos and Order aren’t quite as dissimilar as they seem.

21. Love and Hate are not opposites, but simply one is the softer version of the other and the harsher version of itself

22. The feeling of flying after breathing slowly

23. Doubting if anything ever said is truly unique

24. Doubting if “unique” actually exists.

25. Jazz recordings from 1938

26. Discrepancies.

27. “Ubiquitous” is still one of my favorite words, unfortunately, it is not ubiquitous. (hehe)

28. Pressing the repeat button to listen to my soul song of the night.

29. Him. Who is always on my mind.

30. Him. Who is often on my mind.

31. Him. Who is sometimes on my mind

32. Him. Who I would like to pleasantly vacate.

33. Him. Who should really blow this taco stand.

34. Him. Who needs to kindly fuck off.

35. Her.

36. Telekinesis

37. Telepathy.

38. Best friends

39. Know-it-alls

40. Synonyms.

41. Ecce. ego sum mortem.

42. How uncool people are

43. The idea of “cool” being such a vague term I wish I could forgo ever using it in a colloquial sentence ever again in my existence.

44. Extensive vocabulary.

45. Mother fucking scholars

46. Anticipation

47. Mother Fucking Stupid Ass Bitches

48. Uncultured tongues with a plethora of explicit content.

49. Not having to explain what that sentence means to someone

50. Carpal tunnel

51. Bad conditions for creativity.

52. Comfortability

53. Affordability.

54. The reason I am writing this

55. “Goal setting”

56. Careers are for losers who don’t play instruments

57. “I’m a writer, I need my fucking space.”

58. Hidden genius’.

59. Fucking diseases of the soul

60. Humans are an infection upon the earth

61. Mother nature

62. I WISH I DIDN’T LOOK LIKE THIS

63. I write poems because I’m sad.

64. I’m sad because I write poems

65. I write songs because I can hear them in my head

66. And they wont shut up until I sing them

67. I write lists because they write themselves on the insides of my skull

68. And they only way to wash them off is to get them out through my fingers.

69. This is why I have carpal tunnel.

70. This is why I stay up all night

71. This is why I think too much

72. This is why I hate myself.

73 This is why I can’t believe you.

74. I thought I was good at this

75. A list longer than 612 pages.

76. Numbers can’t write themselves

77. But I wish math could solve its own problems.

78. Girls who are too innocent to understand they are innocent.

79. Sexaul repression.

80. Parental sheltering

81. Misunderstandings.

82. Compound words ^^

83. Antecedents

84. Vague pronoun use

85. Nathaniel Hawthorne

86. Song lyrics quoted on social media no one understands

87. Likes.

88. Dislike button

89. Disaster

90. Fucking it all up.

91. Cheating the system

92. Realizing the system was made up

93. Making up your own rules

94. Pointless laughter

95. References too advanced for your knowledge of history, philosophy, and literature.

96. Books written in 430 B.C.

97. Hieroglyphics

98. Happiness

99. Nerds

100. A list that will hopefully last forever.

From the Point of View of the Unknowing


In light of all my childhood, my raising, and my small knowledge and assumptions, I  have seen the contradictions. My mother always said: “You will pick the right man to marry, and it will be beautiful.” I question the word “right”. It’s so dirtied by fate, destiny, and choice. It weighed by belief, drive, and devotion. I don’t always believe in “right”.  From Disney, I was taught that the right man for me would show up in glamour and gloss. From romantic comedies, I was taught that the man I love might not be all I thought he was, but he will still be perfect for me.

This is all fine and good… but looking at many marriages that are around me, I’ve seen that some people end up with the “love of their life” and some people end up with someone they just can’t escape from. The marriages of inescapable “rage and love” to quote Billie Joe Armstrong, are the ones where the children are victim to the brokenness that their parents have bound themselves into in marriage. Maybe its destiny, fate, and prophesy. Or maybe it’s the wrong pairing. From a fan’s point of view, and if everything were a novel, it’s not the one true pairing, its the awkward teacher/student pairing every dirtily wishes for but knows if that actually happened everything would go to hell. Why is this? Why is longed after ? And why is so, so, inconceivably wrong. It pains me to see relationships, barely floating on the seas of life, circling the drain, and yet they still try.

They still try, after everything. Maybe its a sign that they want to keep the love going, or they want to stick it out… they want to be redeeming and romantic. They want to have the happy ending. They want Happily Ever After. The question I have about this, is easy. Is it even possible? Or is it that childhood fantasy of becoming a princess? (mine was becoming a fairy queen but same thing). Is it all for nothing?

An answer I can live with for now is: Who knows, because no one keeps track of this shit.

Who the fuck cares…when we’ve lost the will to care.

Positive Encounters


I’ve met many new people recently, and as the world recognizes, most people are obsessed, fixated, focused, and intent on getting a significant other. Well, this is a problem in my social life because I have many male friends that are confused how to obstain from loving me….and occasionally me from them. This is a HUGE social issue that I hate a lot. It never gets easier and I don’t think it ever will. But will it ever get better when I am an adult? That is the question that is ubiquitous in my life. I don’t really know how to apply the answer yet, as I am still very young and not totally independent yet.  I really try to be independent in small ways, paying for clothes/food/entertainment and the rest. Though it is hard when I only work 2 hours a week babysitting. I will start working more after my birthday though–16 in 2 weeks!!– not sure where yet.

There it is again, the urge to meet new people, become close, and fall a part again. Why? Why keep the cycle going? I can’t stop it though.. so I guess I’ll just go with the flow.

I’ve written about 4 songs in the past 3 months. Crazy. A plethora of emotions and thoughts. I don’t even write in my thought journal anymore because I have to many songs in my head.

I went to my first concert on Sunday. Black Veil Brides!! I met a ton of cool and talented people. Lot’s of cover bands. I also saw Warm Bodies last night and it rocked my love story world. Everyone should see that movie. The symbolism blew my mind. Then today, I saw American Idiot the Musical by Green Day. I will never be the same. I loved it. I cried at the end. “This is my rage, This is my love, this is my life.” I LOVE IT!

I’ll be singing those songs for a long time now. Thanks Billie Joe Armstrong! ❤ Changed my life.